Murder by Facebook. Wait, what?

As most of you know, there have been some negative effects to the innovation that is social networking. Websites like Twitter and Tumblr have made it easy for people to share their thoughts instantly across the globe.  People easily hand over  their privacy in return for connecting with people countries apart. It’s not difficult to give people all of the information they need to find your house and break in when you’re away.

Facebook has become one of the most used social networking sites in the world, but it comes with a price. Friendships, marriages, and lives have been ruined because of a simple post on Facebook. Although video games like Second Life and W.O.W. have managed to do the same, nothing can compare to the impact social sites  have had on our perception of reality. While a marriage can end because the spouse would rather live his/her Second Life, sites like Facebook and Myspace can tear apart lives as they are being lived. Cyber bullying and murders have stemmed from the trust and lack of privacy on these sites.

Say you have your address posted on your Facebook and your profile is not set to private. Then, you post that you’re going on vacation for a certain amount of time. Someone can very easily go to your house and break in knowing all the information necessary to never be caught in the act.

On this website, it details the 13 Craziest Deaths caused by social media sites.

The first is relatively harmless compared to others on the list.  A woman from New Zealand got bored  and decided to psychologically scar dozens of young men. She created fake profiles for young women and killed them through various, traumatizing ways.  And this as I said is a tame one. The next one immediately makes you drop your jaw in horror. A woman separated from her husband does the unthinkable and changes her status to single. Terrible huh? She separates from him and changes her status, OMG?! It seems normal, but her husband felt otherwise. His response wasn’t a nasty message on Facebook. Instead, he sneaked into her parents house and stabbed her to death. You’re thinking this only happens in nightmares, not reality, but no. He did it and then he killed himself. Seems just a little over reaction for a simple status change.

Now I know I used to care about what was put on Facebook and what I put on there. It was only after growing up a little did I realize that there was no sense in caring about what people typed about. It matters what people say in person instead. However, these people aren’t just teenagers, they are full grown adults.

As I read on the scenarios get weirder. A son kills his father for taking away his Myspace. I mean, come on, Myspace? It wasn’t even that great! It was cluttered and too many fake emo kids were on it. However, the kid was suicidal and this act of discipline drove him to the edge. Just a different one.

It’s not just limited to Facebook or Myspace. Twitter is a fast, easy place to threaten and kill people you don’t like. One pair of friends had just this happen. One guy killed the other, fighting over a girl, and tweeted about it later. To paraphrase Kanye West, “How could he be so heartless?”

The moral of all of these stories is not to care about what is posted on social networking sites. In the digital age, more social interactions are being transferred online.  However, not everything on there should be taken to the extent that it is. In the real world things can get out of hand pretty easily. Someone can be provoked to do violent things with just a few sentences. It has become a scary world when you can post something on the internet and physically suffer for it.

To me, being careful about the political or spiritual beliefs you have is important to survival nowadays. Sometimes relationships can change because people have become more sensitive to the things being placed on social networking sites. It’s important to take things with a grain of salt in your virtual world and the real one. Please be careful because the next post…could be your last… duh duh duhhhhhhh!



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5 responses to “Murder by Facebook. Wait, what?

  1. It’s so true, people take social networking far too seriously these days. But on the same note, people complain about facebook in particular giving them no privacy, but they are the ones who gave their information in the first place. People need to learn to think carefully about what they do reveal in social networking (especially where they are at any given time, I have known people who have been beaten up or mugged because of this), and they need to learn to take it less seriously. I find myself spending less time on such sites as I get older, because I prefer to just see people in real life.
    Anyway, I’m just ranting now, hahaha. Great post! 🙂

  2. I’m not sure if you should not care about what is posted, but be more thoughtful about what you do post?
    It’s kind of similar to the situation when someone gets into a car – they are willing to be much ruder and angrier when they don’t have to meet the other person face to face.

    • That’s true. Maybe care to an extent. Like for important things, if a person can’t tell you face to face should you care that they “muster the courage” to put it on facebook? Are people as genuine when they don’t have to face the person? Like talking on the phone compared to in person also.

      • Exactly! There is that degree of separation there.

      • I mean I know that we unconsciously act differently around other people and when we aren’t face to face. However, it is so difficult to understand why other people act so boldly and a lot of times violently when they aren’t in person. Does that mean with the right provocation that person will turn to violence outside of the internet, off the phone, or outside of the car? According to the article, the right provocation sometimes is the same thing that allows people to show their true and sometimes ugly colors. I know that on here sometimes I can gather my words in an argument better, but more or less I don’t say things I wouldn’t say in person. I also realize that what I say on here and Facebook reflects my reputation. Once it’s on the internet it’s permanent. Someone will see it immediately and could easily save it. So, I am always cautious about the arguments or anger I show because someday it could bite me in the butt.

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